Set up a time for your pastor to visit you at your home (or a coffee shop, etc, if you prefer). This is a great opportunity to - get to know each other - express joys and concerns in your life - discuss how the Spirit is moving in your life - what are you passionate about? - how you enjoy using your gifts/talents - discuss spiritual practices that could help one connect with God - what is most meaningful in sermons; worship; outreach; teamwork - communication preferences - pray together
The visits are 45-90 minutes depending on if there there is a visit scheduled immediately after yours and how far away they are. If you would appreciate a longer visit, you can sign up for two back-to-back.